Let’s face it, Tinder has a pretty ‘hot’ reputation worldwide. When we are looking for a partner to hang out with for the day or for a while, Tinder is the first thing that comes to mind. Of course, there are some people who meet on this platform and end up getting married. Nevertheless, we usually prefer Tinder for exciting relationships rather than looking for a serious relationship.
Now let’s get to our main topic. What should we look for in a woman using Tinder when she has a boyfriend? Frankly, this is none of our business. If this happens, it is the business of the person using the app and her boyfriend. But if you, as a woman, want to have an opinion on this issue, we can give you a few suggestions.
Should I break up with my boyfriend for using Tinder?
When you broach the subject with your close friends, there is a good chance that most of them will tell you that what you are doing is unforgivable. Actually, from a distance, they are not entirely wrong. Of course, the most important part here is your purpose for using Tinder. Are you not happy with your current partner and want to find a new one? Or do you want to stay in a relationship with your significant other but still want to meet someone to ‘hook up’ with?
If this is your intention, you should at least let your partner know about it and discuss it between you and make a final decision. Don’t let anyone put you in a mold. This life is yours and you should live it as you wish. But if you want to have such an experience with a partner, you should inform your partner about this situation. You may encounter unpleasant developments if he/she knows about it in some other way and not through your mouth.
Or is your goal really to find a friend rather than looking for a new thrill? If you are using Tinder for this reason, don’t be unfair to yourself and decide to break up right away. Our advice is to make friends through a more social experience rather than using Tinder to find friends.